The elders were busy telling stories of their time. And all the young cousins were listening to their grandparents experiences in the form of these stories, So that in the next life, they can face the circumstances of their lives in the light of the experiences of their elders.
Our parents were busy talking about their daily lives and activities. Which gave us the opportunity to learn how to fulfill our responsibilities in the life to come.
Our elders and our parents were also listening to our thoughts and ideas and giving us advice on how to solve our problems in the light of their own experiences.
I looked into the whole room, everyone was talking to each other in a pleasant atmosphere.
The three generations were seemed to be connected with each other under one roof. Everyone seemed to be involved with one and other.
It was as if the experience, the practical, and the students were all sitting together.
And in this whole conversation, everyone could easily share their problems with each other. And everyone was listening intently to each other's problems. Like anyone's problem is everyone's problem. And everyone would sit with their heads together to solve each other's problems.
That sitting of my childhood still lingers in my heart and I often sit in that sitting, looking for my old relationships, the riots of social media has taken them far apart.
In this large hall like room of the house, the whole family still gathers today, but the atmosphere is not the same as before. The elders seem to talk to each other. While young people look busy on their mobile phones. And kids seem to be busy with their own tablets
Despite being together, there is a gap between every relationship due to excessive use of social media.
"Social media, which bridges the gap between people, has taken relationships very far apart."
My ears often want to hear that childhood conversations again. When all three generations shared their thoughts and problems with each other without hesitation. When you don't have to find topics to talk about.
When the stories of the elders were always of interest to the children. Nowadays, instead of listening to stories from their elders, children are more interested in making new friends on their tablets through social media.
When no friend was more important than cousins, the idea of strangers didn't look good in those days, but now social media has made new people more important than cousins.
The growing use of social media has nurtured an inexperienced generation and a generation that trusts people quickly. Who prefer to waste their time on strangers rather than their relationships.
Social media is spreading like a cancer in relationships. Which is taking everyone away from each other. In this big hall of the house, those who discuss every topic now have no topic to talk about other than their own social media stories.
Nowadays mothers put their mobile phones or tablets in their children's laps to silence their crying babies. Any kind of cartoon movie that runs on it whether it is moral or immoral, contributes to the upbringing of their children.
Nowadays, young boys and girls have kept their hearts open by considering social media as the land of love. An entertaining game in the name of love continues on social media.
We have not been able to solve the problem of generation gap so far. The problem of generation gap started when everyone started thinking of themselves as completely wise and prudent. And people stopped paying attention to the opinions of their elders. Changing social traditions made people independent in the decisions of their lives.
Due to social media, the distance between us is also increasing. Due to social media, the gaps in relationships are also widening. And since then, people have stopped giving importance to the opinions of their elders. Ever since the changing social traditions, people have become independent in the decisions of their lives
With the increasing development in the world, the thinking of human beings is moving towards decline.
In the hearts of the people, the value of their relationships is diminishing. And in exchange for people, the value of their social media friends is increasing.
Children are moving away from their parents, and parents are moving away from their children. The era of mutual harmony is coming to an end.
Each member of the family is like a strong pillar for the whole family, who supports his family individually, but now because of social media, all the pillars of the family looks separate from each other and the foundations of the family are began weak now.
In order to reduce the distance between all relationships due to social media, it is necessary to reduce the generation gap first. Every member of the family,elder or younger, should give time to each other.
Take time out of your social media life to give time to your family and relatives. Arrange a family gathering where all the relatives are together and everyone can share their problems with each other. And resume the ritual of solving each other's problems together.
This small effort will have a great impact on our society. The reason for the increase in problems in this world is that people are not interested in each other's problems.
Every rich relative maintains social distance from his poor relatives in order to maintain his social status.
If we put aside our social life and organize occasional family gatherings, we can play our part in solving the problems of the society by helping our poor relatives.
Social distances in the name of social status has isolated the poor and exacerbated the problems of society.
We should try to bridge the social gap at the level of our own families by covering the generation gap, so that experience, practice and students can all play their part in the betterment of society.
Social media has many advantages but we should try to bridge the biggest disadvantage of social media by bridging the gap in our relationships. And social media should be used as needed. Instead of unnecessarily engaging with strangers on social media, you should discuss your problems with your family.
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اردو ترجمه
گهر کے بڑے سے هال نما کمرے میں سارا خاندان جمع تها، میرے سب انکل اور آنٹیاں، میرے کزنز، میرے دادا دادی. اور سب ایک دوسرے سے گپ شپ میں مصروف تهے
بزرگ افراد اپنے دور کی کهانیاں سنانے میں مصروف تهے. اور هم سب کزنز اپنے دادا دادی سے ان کهانیوں کی صورت میں ان کے تجربات سن رهے تهے. تاکه آئنده زندگی میں، هم اپنے بزرگوں کے تجربات کی روشنی میں اپنی زندگی کے حالات کا مقابله کر سکیں
همارے والدین اپنی روزمرّه کی زندگی اور مصروفیات کے متعلق بات چیت میں مصروف تهے. جو همیں آئنده زندگی میں پیش آنے والی ﺫمّه داریوں کو نبهانے کے متعلق سیکهنے کا موقع فراهم کر رهی تهی
همارے بزرگ اور همارے والدین هماری بهی سوچ اور نظریات کو سن رهے تهے اور اپنے اپنے تجربات کی روشنی میں هماری الجهنوں اور مسائل کے حل کے متعلق مشوره دے رهے تهے
میں نے پورے کمرے میں نظر دوڑائی، سب لوگ ایک دوسرے سے خوشگوار ماحول میں بات چیت میں مصروف تهے
تین نسلیں ایک چهت کے نیچے ایک دوسرے سے جڑی هؤئی محسوس هوتی تهیں. سب ایک دوسرے میں انوولو محسوس هوتے تهے
ایسا لگتا تها که تجربه، پریکٹیکل اور شاگرد سب ایک ساتھ بیٹھے هیں
اور اس ساری بات چیت میں سب لوگ اپنے مسئلے مسائل ایک دوسرے سے آسانی سے که پا رهے تهے. اور سب لوگ ایک دوسرے کے مسائل کو انهماک سے سن رهے تهے. جیسے کسی ایک کا بهی مسئله سب کا مسئله هے. اور سب لوگ ایک دوسرے کے مسائل کے حل کے لیے سر جوڑ کر بیٹھ جاتے تهے
میرے بچپن کی وه بیٹھک آج بهی میرے دل میں لگتی هے اور میں اکثر اس بیٹھک میں بیٹھ کر، اپنے پرانے رشتوں کو ڈھونڈتی هوں. جنهیں سوشل ميڈیا کے افتاد نے ایک دوسرے سے بهت دور کر دیا هے
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