Forgiveness is healing

I often think that I can't fit people into my expectations. I can't teach people anything by reacting to all kinds of good and bad behavior. People who have to hurt me or deceive me will hurt or deceive me despite my sincerity. People who have given me happiness and respect, they will not look for my evils or weaknesses, but they will give me happiness and honor despite all my weaknesses and evils.

But the important thing is, what will I give to myself?

Should I surrender myself to those who have hurt me or should I thank God for having those in my life who makes me happy?

When I thought about the answer to this question, I realized that I have two things, 

Either I forgive people and go ahead with my life by forgetting the sorrows and deceptions that come from them. And by thinking of the joys of life, by forgiving those who hurt or deceive, I can also free my heart from the burden of sorrows and deceptions given by them.

Or I will spend my whole life mourning over the deceptions and sorrows given by the people and keep my heart under the burden of some deception or sorrow received from the people.

The choice is in my hands. I can move on by forgetting the past and forgiving myself and others. Or I'll just stand there, all my life.

Thinking about all this makes life very light because forgiving others lightens the burden on our own hearts.

Some people in this world deceive us just to hurt us. But some people unknowingly hurt our heart and their intention is not to deceive or hurt us.

In either case, we have our own advantage in forgiving others. 

By forgiving those who intentionally hurt us, we take the burden off our hearts, and by forgiving those who hurt us unknowingly due to some misunderstandings, we also avoid breaking up our relationships.

Instead of making our sorrows fistulas, we should heal our sorrows by putting ointment of forgiveness.

Man does not forget any injustice and oppression that has befallen him, but by forgiving, man saves himself from eternal suffering.

Just as the scars remain but the ointment removes the pain, so by forgiving, a person's pain does not always hurt him.

Rather, they give man the courage and power to move forward.

Forgiveness is a lesson that benefits both the giver and the receiver. 

Often men make such mistakes and sins that they cannot even forgive themselves, but a man should learn from his mistakes by forgiving themselves and continuing the process of correcting himself.

And be ashamed of your sins, and ask forgiveness of ALLAH,  and rely on Allah's forgiveness, and free yourself from the burden of your sins.

A man should be as quick to forgive others as he is to believe that ALLAH will forgive him.

Forgiveness is one of the names of Allah. And most dear to me is the person who hastens to forgive.

You need to learn to forgive each other's small mistakes in life so that you can avoid big sorrows because sometimes small mistakes make big differences.

A man should not make his relationship a sign of ego due to mutual resentment but should erase the differences by forgiving each other.

Sometimes we can't forgive others because of the vengeful spirit in our hearts. And this vengeful thought does not allow us to heal our wounds and sorrows. That is why we should heal our sorrows by forgiving others instead of confusing ourselves with such revengeful thoughts.

Most people fail to forget the bitterness of their past. But I think that, 

A man should free his future from the burden of past sorrows by forgetting the bitterness of his past and forgiving others.

Forgive others, heal your soul and heal your thoughts by forgetting your past and the sorrows and deceptions given by others.

Forgiveness is a difficult task and difficult tasks make a person strong and invincible.